Aur yeh bhi haqeeqat hai kay bachey ko agar sahi zaryey sey malumat na milein to phir woh galat aur tabah kun zaryey sey gumraah kun malumat hasil karta hai aur inhi malumat ka asar hai kay naujawan tabqa jinsi aur akhlaqi tor per tabahi kay kinarey per khara hai.
Humarey khayal mein jinsi talim bachon ko ghar hi sey miley. 9/10 saal ki umer mein maan beti ko aur baap betey ko yeh ta'aleem deni shuru kardey. Research sey sabit ho chuka hai kay bachey walaedaen sey jinsi malumat hasil karney ko tarjeeh detey hain. Iss liye yeh baat bey hudd zaroori hai kay walaedaen khud Quran o sunnah aur jadeed tehqeeq ki roshni mein taza aur sahi ma'aloomat hasil karein ta'kay woh agli nasal ko yeh ma'aloomat muntaqil kar kay ek pursukoon aur behter mua'ashirey ki bunyaad rakhein. Walaedaen kay elawa teachers ko bhi yeh malumat hasil karni chahiyien ta'kay woh hasb e zaroorat bachon ki rehnumaee kar sakein.
Yeh talim bachon ko ek dum nahin bul kay marhala waar milni chahiyie ta hum shaadi sey pehley jinsi talim ki takmeel ho jani chahiyie. Iss talim mein bachon ko apney jismani a'aza (anatomy) aur unn kay functions (physiology) kay hawaley sey malumat fraham ki jaein. Iss kay elawa mubashrat, halal, haram, hamal, paeda'esh aur jinsi beemariyon waghaera kay hawaley sey malumat dii jaein. Khusoosan jins kay hawaley sey jitney mughalitey hain unn ki haqeeqat sey bachon ko aagah kya jaey.
Iss kay elawa bachon ko yeh talim o tarbiyat bhi dii jaey kay unhoney apney aap ko jinsi tashaddud (sexual abuse) sey kis tarah bachana hai.
Sunday, February 14, 2010
Sex Education For Children
Hum jinsiyat (homosexuality) na sirf gunah hai bul kay khatarnak jinsi bemariyon khusoosan AIDS waghaera kay phaelney ka mu'asser zarya hai. Kya naujawan nasal ko iss baat ka ilm nahin hona chahiyie kay mian biwi kay jinsi ta'alluqaat per sharmindagi ki koi baat nahin, yeh koi buri cheez nahin. Allah kay nabi ney biwi kay sath mubaashirat ko naeki aur sadqa qaraar diya hai. Iss tarah kyalarkiyon ko yeh ilm nahin hona chahiyie kayhaez koi bemari nahin bul kay ek fitri cheez hai jo inn ki baloghat aur takmeel ki alamat hai. Kya bachiyon ko yeh ilm nahin hona chahiyie kay leucorrhea koi beemari nahin.
Agar aap bachon ko Quran o sunnah aur jadeed ilm ki roshni mein khud jinsi ta'aleem nahin deingey to bachey yeh ma'aloomat apney doston, deewaro'n per ishtehaaraat aur ghaer meyari kutub sey hasil kareingey jo taqreeban 100% ghalat aur gumrahkun hoti hain. Ek research kay mutabiq bachey taqreeban 50% jinsi ma'aloomat doston aur 21% kutub sey hasil kartey hain(Hyde). Budqismati sey bacho'n kay doston ki ma'aloomaat durust hoti hain na hi humarey haan iss mozou per meyaru kutub mojood hain.
Iss hawaley sey ek sawal yeh paeda hota hai kay bachon ko jinsi taleem kab dii jaey. Iss silsiley mein Quran majeed sey rehnumaee milti hai. Who bachey jinki madri zuban urdu hai woh ju'nhi Quran Majeed parhna shuru kartey hain unn ki sex education bhi shuru ho jati hai. Amooman bachey 9 ya 10 saal ki umer mein Quran majeed parhna shuru kar detey hain. Mashhoor huftroza Time kay ek survey kay mutabiq awam ki aksaryat ka khayal hai kay jinsi ta'aleem 12 saal ki umer sey shuru ho jab kay walaedaen ka khayal hai kay bachon ki jinsi ta'aleem baloghat sey pehley shuru nahin honi chahiyie magar haqeeqat yeh hai kay bacha apni jinsi ta'aleem apney ibtedaee saalon mein shuru kar deta hai
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Agar aap bachon ko Quran o sunnah aur jadeed ilm ki roshni mein khud jinsi ta'aleem nahin deingey to bachey yeh ma'aloomat apney doston, deewaro'n per ishtehaaraat aur ghaer meyari kutub sey hasil kareingey jo taqreeban 100% ghalat aur gumrahkun hoti hain. Ek research kay mutabiq bachey taqreeban 50% jinsi ma'aloomat doston aur 21% kutub sey hasil kartey hain(Hyde). Budqismati sey bacho'n kay doston ki ma'aloomaat durust hoti hain na hi humarey haan iss mozou per meyaru kutub mojood hain.
Iss hawaley sey ek sawal yeh paeda hota hai kay bachon ko jinsi taleem kab dii jaey. Iss silsiley mein Quran majeed sey rehnumaee milti hai. Who bachey jinki madri zuban urdu hai woh ju'nhi Quran Majeed parhna shuru kartey hain unn ki sex education bhi shuru ho jati hai. Amooman bachey 9 ya 10 saal ki umer mein Quran majeed parhna shuru kar detey hain. Mashhoor huftroza Time kay ek survey kay mutabiq awam ki aksaryat ka khayal hai kay jinsi ta'aleem 12 saal ki umer sey shuru ho jab kay walaedaen ka khayal hai kay bachon ki jinsi ta'aleem baloghat sey pehley shuru nahin honi chahiyie magar haqeeqat yeh hai kay bacha apni jinsi ta'aleem apney ibtedaee saalon mein shuru kar deta hai
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Importance Of Sex Education - Jinsi Taleem Ki Zaroorat
Mardon ko, aurton ko, bachiyon ko, jawano'n ko, hutta kay boorhon ko bhi aam taaleem ki tarah jinsi taaleem (sex education) ki zaroorat hai, khusoosan naey shadi shuda couples ko khushgawar azdwajii zindagi kay liye jinsi taaleem ki sakht zaroorat hai. Magar yeh taaleem inn ko Quran aur jaded tehqeeq ki roshni mein sha'estigi kay sath milni chahiyie. Chu'n kay humarey haan iss tarah ka koi intezam nahin jis ka nateeja yeh hai kay naujawan nasal neem hakeemon, ataiyo'n, dewaro'n per ishtehaaraat aur ghaer meyari kutub sey jinsi ma'aloomat hasil karti hai jo kay aksar ghalat, gumraah kun aur tabah kun hoti hain. Inn ghalat ma'aloomaat ki wajah sey humarey mu'aashrey mein bohut sey jinsi masail paeda ho chukey hain jo kay normal azdawaji zindagi mein bohut bari rukawat sabit ho rahey hain, jis ki wajah sey bohut si shadiya'n naakaam ho jati hain, shohar pagal ho jatey hain aur kuch bey charey khudkushi kar letey hain.
Jinsi taaleem (sex education) na sirf azdawaji zindagi ko khushgawar banati hai bul kay iss ki madad sey jinsi jara'em maslan incest, zina biljabr aur doosrey jinsi gunaah masaln hum jinsiyat waghaera ko kam kiya ja sakta hai. Jinsi khwahish (libido) bohut taez aur mu'nh zor hoti hai jo fard ko jinsi gunah aur jara'em per majboor kar deti hai, iss kay elawa sex education ki madad sey ahem jinsi masail maslan surat e inzal (premature ejaculation) aur mardana jinsi kamzori (erectile dysfunction) waghaera ka tadaruk bhi kya ja sakta hai.
Maghrib mein jinsi taaleem, ta'aleemi idaro'n mein dii jati hai magar wahan ta'aleem amooman bacho'n ko zina per aamaada karti hai. Waisey mahireen ka khayal hai kay bacho'n ko jinsi taaleem deney kay liye walaedaen sab sey zyada mozoon hain na kay ta'aleemi idaarey. Baap betey ko aur maan beti ko yeh taaleem dey. Lehaza walaedaen ko iss hawaley sey zyada sey zyada ma'aloomaat hasil karni chahiyien ta'kay woh aaney wali nasal ko yeh ilm muntaqil kar sakein.
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Jinsi taaleem (sex education) na sirf azdawaji zindagi ko khushgawar banati hai bul kay iss ki madad sey jinsi jara'em maslan incest, zina biljabr aur doosrey jinsi gunaah masaln hum jinsiyat waghaera ko kam kiya ja sakta hai. Jinsi khwahish (libido) bohut taez aur mu'nh zor hoti hai jo fard ko jinsi gunah aur jara'em per majboor kar deti hai, iss kay elawa sex education ki madad sey ahem jinsi masail maslan surat e inzal (premature ejaculation) aur mardana jinsi kamzori (erectile dysfunction) waghaera ka tadaruk bhi kya ja sakta hai.
Maghrib mein jinsi taaleem, ta'aleemi idaro'n mein dii jati hai magar wahan ta'aleem amooman bacho'n ko zina per aamaada karti hai. Waisey mahireen ka khayal hai kay bacho'n ko jinsi taaleem deney kay liye walaedaen sab sey zyada mozoon hain na kay ta'aleemi idaarey. Baap betey ko aur maan beti ko yeh taaleem dey. Lehaza walaedaen ko iss hawaley sey zyada sey zyada ma'aloomaat hasil karni chahiyien ta'kay woh aaney wali nasal ko yeh ilm muntaqil kar sakein.
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Islami Talimat Aur Jinsi Zindagi
(Sexual Life In Islam)
Islam ek mukammal zabta e hayat hai jiss ney apney paero kaaro'n ko zindagi kay har shobey mein rehnumaee fraham ki hai. "Jinsi Zindagi" (sexual life) insaani zindagi ka ahem tareen pehlu hai. Chunancha Allah ney Hazrat Adam kay sath Amma Hawwa ko paeda farmaya. Quran Majeed mein irshad hai kay, "uss ney tumharey liye tumhari hi jins sey biwiya'n bana'een ta'kay tum unn kay paas sukoon hasil karo" (Surah Rome Ayat 21) Isi liye Allah kay nabi ney farmaya kay nikah meri sunnat hai jiss ney iss per amal na kiya woh hum mein sey nahin. Hazrat Muhammad ney ek aur jagah farmaya "Allah haq baat kehney sey nahin sharmata". Chunancha Quran mein jinsi zindagi kay ahem usolo'n maslan shaadi (marriage), mubashrat (intercourse), mubashrat kay tariqey (sex positions), mani (seminal fluid), rehem e madar, haez (menses), hamal (pregnancy) aur uss kay mukhtalif adwaar, bachey ki paeda'esh, zina (adultery) aur hum jinsiyat (homosexuality) waghaera ka zikr hai. Doosri taraf Allah kay nabi ney bhi bari tafseel kay sath jinsi zindagi kay mukhtalif pelu per roshni daali hai. Bud qismati sey hum mein sey aksar log iss sey aagaah nahin. Khushgawar azdawaji zindagi kay liye ilm ki zaroorat hai. Kisi ney khoob kaha hai kay 'Knowledge is power and sexual knowledge is super power' chunancha merey khayal mein Pakistan mein har fard ko jinsi ta'aleem ki zaroorat hai.
Islam ek mukammal zabta e hayat hai jiss ney apney paero kaaro'n ko zindagi kay har shobey mein rehnumaee fraham ki hai. "Jinsi Zindagi" (sexual life) insaani zindagi ka ahem tareen pehlu hai. Chunancha Allah ney Hazrat Adam kay sath Amma Hawwa ko paeda farmaya. Quran Majeed mein irshad hai kay, "uss ney tumharey liye tumhari hi jins sey biwiya'n bana'een ta'kay tum unn kay paas sukoon hasil karo" (Surah Rome Ayat 21) Isi liye Allah kay nabi ney farmaya kay nikah meri sunnat hai jiss ney iss per amal na kiya woh hum mein sey nahin. Hazrat Muhammad ney ek aur jagah farmaya "Allah haq baat kehney sey nahin sharmata". Chunancha Quran mein jinsi zindagi kay ahem usolo'n maslan shaadi (marriage), mubashrat (intercourse), mubashrat kay tariqey (sex positions), mani (seminal fluid), rehem e madar, haez (menses), hamal (pregnancy) aur uss kay mukhtalif adwaar, bachey ki paeda'esh, zina (adultery) aur hum jinsiyat (homosexuality) waghaera ka zikr hai. Doosri taraf Allah kay nabi ney bhi bari tafseel kay sath jinsi zindagi kay mukhtalif pelu per roshni daali hai. Bud qismati sey hum mein sey aksar log iss sey aagaah nahin. Khushgawar azdawaji zindagi kay liye ilm ki zaroorat hai. Kisi ney khoob kaha hai kay 'Knowledge is power and sexual knowledge is super power' chunancha merey khayal mein Pakistan mein har fard ko jinsi ta'aleem ki zaroorat hai.
Sex Education
Aala ta'aleem kay ba'ad America sey wapsi per meine Bahawalpur division kay ek chotey sey sheher Chishtiya'n main apna anfsiyati clinic shuru kya. Mera pehla mareez ek ma'amooli parha likha dehaati naujawan tha jis ki inhi dino'n shadi hui thi magar yeh naujawan kaee maah guzarney kay bawajood apni biei sey azdawajii ta'alluqaat qa'em karney mein kaamyaab na hosaka. Doctors kay mutabiq woh bilkul normal tha yani usey koi jismani masla nahi tha. Pehli mulaqat mein uss kay masley per amoomi guftugoo hui phir usey elaj kay liye chund din ba'ad bulaya magar who na aaya, mein bhi uss naujawan ko bhool gaya. Ek maah ba'ad achanak uss kay barey bhaee sey mulaqat hui, meine uss naujawan kay muta'alliq poocha, uski aankh sey aansoo nikal aaey uss ney aansoo ponchtey huey bataya kay uss ney khudkushi karli.
Dar asal woh abhi tak azdawajii ta'alluqaat qa'em na kar paya tha, uss ko yaqeen tha kay who iss qaabil nahin haala'n kay uss kay saarey tests normal thay, phir sharmindagi sey bachney kay liye ek andheri raat biwi ko ley kar ga'on sey baher aaya pehley biwi ko ek darakht kay sath latka diya phir khud bhi ussi darakht kay sath jhool gaya. Haqeeqat yeh thi kay usey koi jinsi masla nahin tha, uska masala sirf nafsiyati tha. Uss ney humein mohlat na dii kay hum uski madad kartey haala'n kay aaj kay ilmi daur mein iss tarah kay masley ko aasaani sey hal kya ja sakta hai. Hum iss tarah kay masail har roz hal kartey hain.
Dar asal woh abhi tak azdawajii ta'alluqaat qa'em na kar paya tha, uss ko yaqeen tha kay who iss qaabil nahin haala'n kay uss kay saarey tests normal thay, phir sharmindagi sey bachney kay liye ek andheri raat biwi ko ley kar ga'on sey baher aaya pehley biwi ko ek darakht kay sath latka diya phir khud bhi ussi darakht kay sath jhool gaya. Haqeeqat yeh thi kay usey koi jinsi masla nahin tha, uska masala sirf nafsiyati tha. Uss ney humein mohlat na dii kay hum uski madad kartey haala'n kay aaj kay ilmi daur mein iss tarah kay masley ko aasaani sey hal kya ja sakta hai. Hum iss tarah kay masail har roz hal kartey hain.
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